Thursday, June 27, 2013

My parents' anniversary and Ben helping me

Tuesday, the 25th, we went to the A's game with my parents and cousin.  We had the best time!  Ben opened up to me more about his work and family life.  I opened up more to him about my family life as well.  I loved hearing his stories.  They opened up my eyes more to what he encounters each day and part of what makes him who he is.  For the first time ever, at our sixth ball game together, we sang "Take Me Out to the Ballgame" at the Seventh-Inning Stretch.  I liked being with one of my favorite cousins, parents, and Ben at the same time.



Yesterday, my on-off again cough/cold/fever/sinus/wheezing sickness, that started nearly two weeks ago, climaxed.  Amazing superhero boyfriend Ben came to my rescue with a bag of meds.




Monday, June 24, 2013

Ben works on his house

Friday we tried out Val's.  I hadn't been there in a decade!  So fun!  Our Shabbat consisted of listening to Jewish and Israeli music and me giving Ben extensive, relaxing, and gentle massage.  He's a hard-worker; deserves it!

Saturday I surprised Ben with breakfast in bed.  We went shopping at Costco together :)
Sunday I cleaned Ben's bathroom while he worked to construct a bedroom in his house.  We went to the Alameda county fair, where I had fried Oreos - which I've been wanting to taste for a decade!



We watched a really nice bluegrass band perform a bit.
We shopped at TJ's together.  When dropping me off, Ben just called me Morah - how endearing!


Friday, June 21, 2013

I'm In!!!

Being offered a position at the JCC meant a lot, but even more, celebrating it with Ben - having him there to congratulate me - gave me a memory that I'll never forget.

So tired from working all day, he still offered to meet me at the Cheesecake Factory - talk about endurance and stamina!  I'm so grateful for and love Ben so much!

Once served, my baby had his mac 'n' cheese burger (he likes mac 'n' cheese on almost anything), and I, my salad.  Afterwards, we went back to his parents' home and relaxed together.  Ben gave me medicine because I felt a bit ill.

Not only did I greatly appreciate Ben's being there to give me hugs afterwards, but I greatly appreciate how much he encouraged me along the way; how much he believed in me.

Ben believing in me makes me believe in myself.

Monday, June 17, 2013

The Title says it all




 
 First couple of months knowing my caring passionate beautiful girlfriend were spent uncovering how many similarities we really had. From our heritage, to upbringing as a child, to hobbies, to city of residence, and origin of worship. It really & still does feel like G-d had a special hand in us meeting. (We did meet in a temple)

She sees through my shortcomings and takes me for me. Been by my side through tragic events, and held me tighter. Gaby has brought light to my life in so many ways. I hope one day I can show her the same in return. Been with me from when I was at the bottom, and we're on our way to the top. 

I'm excited for what our future has to bring. And know deep down that G-d has something special planned for us. Gaby's gift with teaching children I know will be showcased in her second interview at the JCC. No matter what I will be by her side, no matter the outcome. She knows this. But I know my sweetheart, and she knows ill be by her side celebrating on Wednesday when I see her next after she gets the job. 

I love you baby, for you, more than you know. 
beijo.



















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Sunday, June 16, 2013

Fireworks at the A's Game

We had such a super fantastic, absolutely awesome, beyond incredible time together.  On Friday, Ben drove me to the A's game, where we got to just enjoy each other's sweet company, cracking jokes, kissing, and chatting the night away.



On Saturday, Ben kindly treated me to Pasta Pomodoro (it felt so fancy!)  We looked around in Best Buy, realizing our money could be well spent on Amazon.com (have to be smart!)  Then we napped together (zZzZzZ!!!)  It feels so right to be next to each other!  At night, we chowed down on some Panda Express.  Sunday morning, I woke up early and got us donuts.  We mouth-fed pieces to each other like we were babies.  We napped more and then woke-up and left to each see our daddies for Father's Day.

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

It's gettin' hotter outside!

We had a fantastic 9-month anniversary.  I couldn't ask for better.  We indulged, having a great dinner and dessert, time in the hot tub, and something refreshing to drink.

We visited Oakland for First Friday.  Ben really liked seeing the muscle cars.  What a true man.  We had outstanding Mexican cuisine for dinner (surprise!)

Ben stayed up late and I made a long drive just so that we could have a small visit Saturday night/Sunday morning.

Yesterday, Tuesday, Ben came over and we had dinner, hot tubbed, and had a very productive check-in regarding our relationship's direction.

Sunday, June 2, 2013

Spending time with the love of my life

Some weekends I leave Ben feeling bummed about having to say good-bye.  But today, wow, I am just so thankful and so happy I got to see my babe at all.

I had the best weekend with him.  We had the best weekend.  We dressed fancy to celebrate Shabbat in our own hotel room.  We'd been to the place before and had a great time!  We had the most special Shabbat that we ever had, on Friday.  After making our blessings, we each described ten attributes that we highly valued within the other person.  It felt meaningful.



We awoke in the morning, feeling alive - had breakfast at the buffet downstairs and enjoyed the hot tub.  We went to a new restaurant for us, for lunch - El Burro.  It felt like we had walked into Madrid!  - a very authentic-feeling eatery.  Afterwards, we'd sleep for hours in Ben's bed.

After awaking, we went to visit Len, Ben's dad at the hospital.  It was nice seeing his mom and dad; even saw Ben's grandma.  We'd spend the night at Ben's parents house, watching the Voice.  Ben's mommy got me the perfect birthday gift - a hot/cold thermos with teacher designs on it.


Then, this
morning, we went to the beach!  We picked up some Alize and laid in the meadow, upon a cliff, overlooking Pacifica.  Then we had some bomb Taco Bell, beachside!  so fun!

Monday, May 27, 2013

Brunch at the marina

I picked Ben up and took him to El Torito.  We had fabulous food, mimosas (Ben also had a very good tasting other mixed drink), and loved the view overlooking the water.

We looked in the stores of Marina Square.

We bought more champagne and orange juice, enjoying it with music, in Ben's room.  We truly enjoyed each other.  We'd dine again in the evening, together.




Sunday, May 26, 2013

Shabbat Shalom

Ben picked me up from my home, looking so handsome in his new GAP sweater.  He bought us wine and chocolate.  We said the brachot over the candles, wine, and our challah.  It felt so meaningful.  We enjoyed watching the Hangover 2 and laughed heartily.  Our cuddling and caressing led us away from the film.

We'd wake up next to each other, very happily and have a delicious breakfast at iHop.  Ben and I gave our leftovers to a homeless man.

I'd see Ben again at night, and we'd recall old memories and go to sleep with me telling Ben a story about a king named Ben.  We woke up, cuddling, purring, kissing, sniffing, licking, rubbing, and enjoying soft tunes.

Thursday, May 23, 2013

Mid-week Wine

My love visited me yesterday.  Just seeing him fills my heart with joy.  We relaxed in the garden room's loft.  He read a book to me, and we slowly migrated back to the house, where we enjoyed a bit of beverage with television.  We laughed at the potential humor in cooking contests.

I enjoyed him so much.  I loved sending him with delicious food.

Sunday, May 19, 2013

A celebratory weekend

Friday night, Ben and I went to Jack London Square.  We ate at a Latin-inspired restaurant called Boca Nova.  Ben dressed in a suit and tie while I wore a skirt and cardigan.  We ordered a Brazilian dish (feijoada), caesar salad, a tamale dish, and we savored desert (fried custard with fruit).  The restaurant amazed us.  Ben complimented the beautiful brickwork by the port.

After dinner we strolled along the corridors of the Clairmont Hotel and had a lot of fun being in such a fancy place.  We would retire in Ben's own bedroom (very happily).

The next day would begin with McDonald's breakfast - which we both really loved!  Ben showed much love in servicing my car.  We would have a fantastic time at the A's game which included a fireworks special.  We admired the fireworks from the field, with friends and my sister.







My very birthday meant us shopping!  We ate breakfast at my parents' house, enjoying conversation with my mom.  We splurged at the Great Mall, in Milpitas.  We had a lot of fun at Dave and Buster's, dining and playing games.

I had the best birthday.  I love, cherish, admire, and respect Ben.  He  continues to impress and amaze me, just by being himself.


Thursday, May 16, 2013

Hotel Party Anyone?



I visited Ben yesterday night in Oakley/Antioch.  He surprised me by opening the door with his glasses on.  He drives me crazy when he wears them.

I looked forward to the visit all day long.

Sunday, May 12, 2013

Mother's Day



This morning, we picked up matching flower purses for our moms.  They both loved them!  Ben will be spending this next week training in Antioch, while I teach at the preschool and spend time with my family.


We had a great time at the Giants game.  They totally outscored the Braves!  We felt blessed to spend time with a friend from Brazil and Ben's brother.  We had a yummy organic meal and shopped at one of our favorites, Target!